Wedding Speeches: Paper or Phone? Let’s Talk About It.

Hello friends!

As someone who’s had the honour of being the DJ and MC at countless weddings, I’ve witnessed some truly unforgettable moments. One thing that always stands out to me is the wedding speeches. They’re heartfelt, emotional, and often filled with laughter. But there’s a trend I’ve noticed lately that I want to talk about: delivering speeches from mobile phones.

I understand — we’re all attached to our phones these days. They’re convenient, always within reach, and it’s easy to jot down notes on them. But when it comes to wedding speeches, I believe there’s a better way. Let me share why I feel that opting for paper over a phone can make a significant difference on your special day.

Why Paper Triumphs Over Phones for Wedding Speeches

1. A Touch of Elegance

There’s something timeless about holding a piece of paper or elegant note cards. It adds a level of sophistication and shows that you’ve put thought and effort into this moment. Your speech becomes a keepsake—a tangible memory you can look back on, perhaps tucked away in a photo album or memory box. Also, think about how you will look in wedding photo's/video's with your head looking down at a screen! It's not a good look!

2. Avoiding Technical Glitches

We’ve all been there: your phone locks, the screen goes dark, or a notification pops up right in the middle of what you’re doing. The last thing you want during your heartfelt speech is to be fumbling with your device or getting distracted by a sudden text message. With paper, you eliminate these risks entirely.

3. Better Engagement with Your Audience

Holding a phone can create a barrier between you and your listeners. It can make eye contact more challenging, and your audience might feel less connected to your words. Paper notes are less obtrusive and allow you to maintain that all-important eye contact, making your speech more engaging and impactful.

4. Reduced Temptation to Deviate

Phones can be a gateway to distractions. With the internet at your fingertips, it’s tempting to stray from your speech or get sidetracked. Paper keeps you focused on the task at hand—sharing your message with sincerity and clarity.

Tips for Crafting and Delivering Your Speech on Paper

1. Write from the Heart

Start by jotting down your thoughts and feelings about the couple. Share personal anecdotes, offer well-wishes, and don’t be afraid to show emotion. Authenticity resonates with everyone.

2. Practice Makes Perfect

Rehearse your speech multiple times. This will help you become familiar with the flow and reduce the need to read verbatim from your notes. The more comfortable you are, the more natural you’ll sound.

3. Use Easy-to-Read Formatting

Write or print your speech in a clear, large font. Consider double-spacing and using bullet points to make it easy to glance at your notes without losing your place.

4. Keep It Concise

Aim for a speech that’s heartfelt but concise. Remember, you’re one of several people speaking, and keeping it brief ensures that the audience remains attentive and engaged.

5. Personalize Your Paper

Choose stationery that reflects the wedding theme or your personal style. This small touch can add charm and make the experience even more special.

Making the Moment Memorable

Delivering a speech is a significant honor and a moment you’ll cherish. By choosing paper over a mobile phone, you’re setting yourself up for success and showing respect for the occasion. It demonstrates that you’ve taken the time to prepare thoughtfully, which won’t go unnoticed by the couple or the guests.

A Few Final Thoughts

I understand that using a phone can seem convenient, but weddings are all about celebrating traditions and creating lasting memories. Embracing the classic approach of a paper speech adds to the elegance and significance of the day.

So, if you’re preparing to give a speech at an upcoming wedding, consider going old-school with paper. Trust me; it’s a choice you—and everyone listening—will appreciate.

Thank you for letting me share my thoughts on this topic. If you have any questions or need help preparing for your big moment, feel free to reach out. I’m always here to help make your wedding experience as wonderful as possible!

DJ Chris Anthony